I don’t know about you but I’m tired of all the political anger.
Opinion
The emotion itself is untrustworthy and just so incredibly exhausting. Who in the world can be angry all the time? Marcus Aurelius had an important warning for Wyoming and America, when he said, “How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it,” We need to run that bit of wisdom like a moving stadium banner around the Capitol dome in Washington D.C. and plaster it on billboards across the country.
And I’m afraid the problem is no longer just an issue of elsewhere. In Wyoming it feels like we’re on the precipice of losing our small-town, neighbor-helping-neighbor, kindness-matters, smile-and-wave-at-everyone culture, forever. Anger wants to win. This means we could be headed towards losing what makes Wyoming uniquely….. well, Wyoming. There isn’t room here to list all that we’d lose if we let that happen — mainly because it’s slightly different for each of us, but we all have our lists, and those things are in danger.
Why do I think the Wyoming way of life we hold dear is in peril? Here are a few of the more frustrating signs.
This dubious out-of-state group Make Liberty Win supporting Freedom Caucus-aligned candidates is orchestrating increasingly deceitful and angry texts, phone calls, mailers and out-of-state door knockers, lying to voters and ruining the peace and quiet of residents in even the smallest of Wyoming’s communities. Coupled with the Freedom Caucus PAC itself using misleading procedural votes to try and paint candidates as something they are not, and it’s all an ugly mix. If bearing false witness was an Olympic sport these people have already won the gold medal.
Does anyone know why our Secretary of State has done and said nothing about this? The mailers have falsely given challengers the title of legislator, given wrong dates for early voting and included erroneous photos of the candidates they are supposedly supporting. (Can you know anything about a candidate whose face you don’t know?) Despite numerous complaints, Chuck Gray appears to have said and done nothing.
Next, the increasing loss of civility our elected officials show toward each other is another bad omen. Sen. Cheri Steinmetz (R-Lingle) recently showed her willingness to smear a friend (it’s probably safe to say former friend) in the Cowboy State Daily, while many others have been happy to trash political rivals in press releases and social media videos. We see that continue in Wyoming-related social media posts where the name-calling and ugliness among even the rank and file are at an all-time level. Where will it end?
Steinmetz also recently claimed in the same article that civility is in fact a “liberal” trait. That’s an assertion our founding fathers, Ronald Reagan and every other statesman this country has ever known would be shocked to hear). My grandmothers, Sunday school teachers and parents would also have to disagree with the state senator.
Civility is no longer a virtue conservatives or Republicans should strive for, according to Steinmetz, who is suspected of having her sights on the governor’s office. Thomas Jefferson was indeed right when he said, “Whenever a man has cast a longing eye on offices, a rottenness begins in his conduct.”
This is surely a signal that many more of her ilk will wholeheartedly embrace mudslinging as business as usual — even after Saturday’s horrific events. Friends are now bitter enemies. Enemies are now the thing to acquire. We all need to stop this right now.
But it’s becoming increasingly harder and harder to stop. The number of new residents who have poured into our state who feel Wyoming just isn’t what it should be and who have helped sow the division and imported smear tactics are making small but significant inroads in our politics. Many of them have no real understanding of the history or culture of the communities they now call home.
Familiarity may explain why some have no qualms about deploying election tactics common in the blue states they recently moved here from, but these tactics are not normal in the Cowboy State. Many longtime residents are noticing the increasing vitriol and they are concerned. The political allure of Wyoming hides in an open secret — it’s just so much easier to be a big fish in Wyoming than in any other state. I fear many have embraced the smear tactics to increase their speed to the top of our proverbially small pond.
And finally, incumbents’ deliberate refusal to participate in community-wide debates — and doing so with ready-made excuses pulled from word salad of national rhetoric seeking to divide our country — has finally arrived in our humble little hamlet of Wyoming. These tactics serve only to deepen our divides by further dehumanizing those with whom we disagree politically. Refusing to engage in a debate with someone you disagree with hurts the person refusing as much as the voters who don’t get to hear and understand where each candidate is coming from politically. That contrast is critical to voters.
Debates expand our understanding of issues; they strengthen critical thinking skills in the debaters, and minimize the echo chambers within certain political sects that feed polarization.
Where will it all end?
Will sitting legislators soon refuse to help serve their constituents throughout the year unless their politics align with their own? Will more friendships die on the altar of so much political worship? Will outside groups like Make Liberty Win take over our Legislature and governor’s office so that we can become slaves to whatever ideas come from our masters in Washington D.C.? Will Wyoming lose everything unique and wonderful about our political culture this election cycle?
We should all be concerned. These real-time events will not make our state better. They will make our state different — different from the small-town, your-neighbor-is-your-friend-no-matter-what, we-all-celebrate-our-wins-together feel that is uniquely Wyoming — and that’s far worse.
I hope we can all take stock these next few months and reject the anger wholeheartedly. Let’s all renew our love of Wyoming by embracing the joy of living in this state — it really is magnificent! Be kind to your neighbors. Don’t ask them who they voted for, just like them for them. And walk away in kindness from those still willing to push anger and division on all of us. Most importantly, don’t vote for angry people. Reject angry political texts, mailers, and the like. Hit “stop,” toss the mailer in the trash, tell the door knockers to move on. Wyoming will be better for it. Our country will be better for it.
And lastly, let us all hear these words by former President George Washington in his farewell address as a call to renew our own inner sense of unity and civility: “The unity of government, which constitutes you one people, is also now dear to you. It is justly so; for it is a main pillar in the edifice of your real independence, the support of your tranquility at home, your peace abroad; of your safety; of your prosperity; of that very liberty which you so highly prize.”

In my opinion, the devolution of political discourse in America is due to the fact that few, if any, candidates actually have anything of substance to say. We get never-ending bromides, irrelevant chants, and sanitized talking points instead of debates about principles, beliefs, and concrete proposals. Instead of explaining to voters why a particular candidate is worthy of support, we get a litany of reasons to fear the election of the other candidate. And the worst parts of human nature come out when an inferior candidate fears their own loss–they resort to trying to smear the other candidate(s) with allegations which are often outright lies.
I don’t see value in accusing the liberals, conservatives, or whomever as to “who” engages in this kind of behavior. The problem seems disappointingly universal.
Ayn Rand once wrote, “…What they dread to discover is the fact that the intellectual status quo they inherited is bankrupt, that they have no ideological base to stand on and no capacity to construct one. Brought up on the philosophy of Pragmatism, they have been taught that principles are unprovable, impractical or non-existent—which has destroyed their ability to integrate ideas, to deal with abstractions, and to see beyond the range of the immediate moment.”
The solution would be for candidates to have debates about ideas, not bromides. But, then again, which candidates would even be qualified to participate in such a discussion?
Well written Amy. What you have stated speaks for all of us who see and hear the callousness and self-aggrandizing comments of many of our lawmakers. When did bullying and lying become the first plank of personal and party platforms?
I would have liked to see you add your “Honor Wyoming” to your list of incivility. These new jokers from out-of-town, use folksy ranch style language to try to persuade us their “brand” integrity rating is rooted in some Cowboy tradition. It’s not! And there is no honor in there ruse.
Your underhanded and unsubstantiated degradation of “blue states” is passive-aggressive fuel for the very same political anger you claim to decry in your opinion piece.
– from my 1971 Northwest College course in Wyoming Politics and Government taught by the late professor John T. Hinckley:
” Everything in Wyoming is political except politics, which is personal ”
QED
Update: An addendum to my earlier post— Add several mailers in the box today from the Americans for Prosperity PAC—- What is everyone’s fascination with HD2 this year?
Thank You!!
Amy, thank you so much for all of this! One of the best things about Wyoming politics has been (up to now) that they were our neighbors, and that they were all approachable. I was born and raised in Wyoming and have been the beneficiary of total strangers’ kindness when it was very needed. As a school board member, I have also been the victim of vitriol from people new to our state who think they understand Wyoming, but aren’t even close. If we can “live and let live,” and “pay it forward”, we would all be better off.
Your article has many valid points about the lack of civility we are seeing in Wyoming, but I believe your comment that current Wyoming politicians are, “deploying election tactics common in the blue states…not normal in the Cowboy State” is inappropriate. Please show proof that blue states deploy improper tactics.
I totally agree. It Looks like she couldn’t help herself.
You are so right! Thank you for exposing the ugly truth of what is happening in this state. I’ve had many conversations with friends and we’re very nervous about the direction this state is taking. As voters we must do better, but let’s face it, people are not doing their homework and finding out who
Is really behind some of these candidates. Love to see a list of freedom
Caucus candidates that we can run out of office.
I have noticed these unscrupulous tactics used by the Pearson for State Senator race in Sublette County. The Pearson phone call points out her opponent, Albert Sommers, for his stance on illegal immigrants, for the United States’ close ties with China and before I hang up the phone other discretions he is supposed to be supporting. One thing about all of these innuendos is that none of them have anything to do with state government and his voting record. The calls are blasphemous and and false, yet they continue. I have received three calls during the last three weeks and with each one I have told the caller that what she is spewing are lies and then hung up. This is a sure sign I won’t be voting for Pearson and that she is using national issues put out by the Freedom Caucus to imply that her opponent is not fit for office. Sorry Pearson, but some of us are aware of your false statements and tactics.
This is Laura Pearson, and I have made NO phone calls, nor funded anything negative going out about my opponent!
I am however handing out bookmarks, where our constituents can do their own research on my opponent’s voting record. THESE ARE HIS VOTES!! I am running on accountability and transparency.
I received this comment thread from a friend feeling like I needed to respond to this. ONCE AGAIN, I HAVE FUNDED NO CALLS, OR NEGATIVE MAILERS!
It’s quite interesting to note that you may choose to be “anonymous” until you are elected. According to the State Freedom Caucus Network that lists current candidates that are known Wyoming Freedom Caucus members and others who are running that choose to be anonymous that one can donate to.
I would also like to note that you are the chapter vice chair of the Sweetwater County chapter of Mom’s for Liberty. According to SPLC, Mom’s for Liberty is an hate group that has many affiliations with extremist groups such as the Proud Boys. Your mom’s group refers to teacher’s union’s as “terrorist organizations.” Here’s a quote I particularly liked, “ The group subsequently appealed with an open letter to Facebook’s founder, Mark Zuckerburg, asking him not to side with the National Education Association who were seeking to label concerned parents as “domestic terrorists.”
Simply put Laura, I don’t believe you.
Amy, well written and well said. As I walk my dog to the park everyday, here in Cody, I exchange waves and smiles with folks I’ve never met. Wyoming is special and I hope it stays that way. Anger seems to be popular on the national stage these days, but it is a childish and destructive way to avoid solutions. Thank you for your opinion piece.
Thanks for sharing Amy. Let’s hope your comments will help quell the war cries.
This article is confusing. It points out Republicans in wyoming, who are mudslinging and talks about conservative people from the freedom caucus causing problems and then switches and talks about new residents deploying tactics common in blue states but doesn’t give any examples of that…? It suggests that the problem is mostly about conservative Republicans in Wyoming but then the author also suggests that it is outsiders from blue states. Who is it really? Rep. Steinmetz from Lingle says that civility is a liberal trait. Hmmm…
Ms. Edmonds is concerned about civility, and rightly so. However, Ms. Edmonds was formerly a staffer for Liz Cheney, who hurled an incredible amount of vitriol for years, and participated in a Jan 6th committee that was not constructed according to House rules. I do believe that truth matters, and it is not wrong to alert citizens to politicians stance on issues. Let the voter discern, and let’s avoid censoring people.
Lot of this is a diversion of voters attention. The parties do it to hide their real intentions. Both parties are guilty. Just do it various ways. Remember our spending is controlled by Congress. We need to get spending under control. We can do this via the Ballot Box. We as voters need to push our elected officials for Term Limits. Limits on lobbying. Neither party is getting the “best nor brightest” candidates to vote for. This is by design as well. We need to push for COMPLETE BAN ON CONGRESS MEN WOMEN STOCK TRADES while in office. Evan so far as ban on all family members while person in office. Maybe even 2 years after person leaves office. We need to bring back ACCOUNTABILITY at all levels of government.
Amy, I sure enjoy reading all your opinion pieces. Keep it up and thanks for being a voice of civility and reason.